“SHE WAS JUST A WOMAN..

An “ORDINARY” GIRL..

UNTIL ..ONE DAY .. SHE COULD NO LONGER ABIDE..”

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OUR LIVES …OUR HEROES JOURNEY..

THIS IS THE WHO, WHAT , WHEN , WHERE AND HOW OF WHEN

OUR “PURPOSE” BEGINS… and we discover WHO WE REALLY ARE…

I was not put on earth to be a MOM.. ( this I am sure my two daughters will agree with .. )

I AM A MOTHER.. it’s part of my story .. but not my purpose…

WE ARE ALL A “STORY”..

GOOD “STORY TELLING” COMES. FROMOUR EXPERIENCES..

There you were… existing in your “bubble”…. reasonably content…(never happy)..

“SOMETHING” HAPPENED..

maybe not in the form of an EVENT.. but SOMETHING began to NAG at your SOUL…

( OK… AN EVENT.. that caught you so off guard … things had to CHANGE..)

FIRST, YOU “CRIED”…

“I just want my life to remain the SAME..”

Or

“I don’t have time for this INCONVENIENCE…I am on my “path”… STOP..”

. UPENDED….💔

A NAGGING IN THE GUT AND SOUL… AND HEART

A NEED TO MAKE “IT” MAKE SENSE…

A NEED TO MAKE YOUR EXISTENCE MATTER…

A NEED TO HELP …

A SUDDEN REALIZATION LIFE IS SHORT.. “WHAT DOES ANY OF IT REALLY MEAN.”

TRY AS YOU MIGHT … YOU FOUND YOU ARE UNIQUELY “QUALIFIED” TO DO SO… OR AT LEAST TRY…

It isn’t. about gaining the LOVE of one person … it isn’t about gaining riches.. or even being COMFORTABLE..

IT IS GENERALLY MOST UNCOMFORTABLE..

STRENGTH ARISES.. You begin …

OBSTACLES EMERGE… ( many within yourself )

With each… you keep KNOCKING ON DOORS… at times.. even

KNOCKING THROUGH THEM.. “OFF THE HINGES”…

PUSHING YOURSELF… OUT OF YOUR “ZONE”…

Step by step … BECAUSE YOU CANNOT GO BACK…

THINGS HAVE CHANGED… YOU … HAVE CHANGED..

YOUR LIFE IS “DIFFERENT”… CONFIDENCE .. CONTENTMENT..

ACCOMPLISHMENT…

YOU ARE NOT BLISSFULLY CONTENT.. THIS JOURNEY IS NEVER FINISHED ..

THATS PERFECTLY OK ..

YOU ARE EXHAUSTED .. IT FEELS AMAZING ..

(Spoiler Alert.. “LOSS” is still part of the story .. it does not need to make sense .. you have accepted it.. you have transformed it..)

HEROES JOURNEY… is OUR “RIGHT PATH”..

( shout out to my BUDDHIST/HEBREW therapist .. “BUDHEW”…)

ITS NOT EASY … it’s yours…

CLAIM IT.. LIVE IT ..

SING YOUR SONG

FYI .. your real TRIBE will hear your song .. they will join in the chorus

Maybe slightly “off key”..

THIS IS NYC… WE ARE ALL SLIGHTLY “OFF”.. ❤️❤️❤️

GOT MY THERAPIST ON SPEED DIAL.. THOUGHTS, STORIES, TOOLS, TWEAKS, TIPS,). WHAT’S WORKING.. WHAT’S NOT…. THANK YOU.. NEXT…🙄